You are most welcome! I believe there are still some out there who follow what’s considered the old ways, however, I don’t have any experience with Leather Daddies in that regard at all (it would be difficult as I’m not their type!)

I know for myself, as a Domme, this is common sense and best practices for me. It’s also how I expect to be treated when I’m submissive (I’m a true switch)

Anything less and I have no problem walking.

The BDSM lifestyle is a safe place for me. It’s where I turned when I finally freed myself from an abusive in every way marriage and I refuse to feel anything other than safe in its environment. I also refuse to make anyone else feel otherwise.

Thank you so much for reading and taking the time to respond so thoughtfully, Bjoern

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