Women can be sexual beings and own their sexuality. Period. End of statement.

You can’t be sex positive and judge someone for their life choices, even if they don’t coincide with yours.

You have every right to feel the way you do and have your opinion, as do I. However, having been ‘inside’ this career so to speak, for many years, I can tell you a few things you may not know.

  1. It’s not just wealthy men who hire escorts. Most of our clients were middle class (some even lower middle class) folks. And not all of our clients were men!
  2. False sense of intimacy- This depends on who you are and who your escort is. Most interactions are strictly transactional, which BOTH parties want. In a situation where they aren’t (GFE etc.) both parties are fully aware this is a time based situation. It isn’t the fault nor should it be the worry of the escort if their client involves feelings that aren’t there. It’s akin to role playing.
  3. As far as being opposed by women who, I’m presuming you mean, are feminists, I call foul. Anywhere I am in control of the amount of money I make, my schedule, my time, and what I will and will not do with my body is my business and most assuredly doesn’t relegate me to second class citizenry.
  4. equal pay for equal work?? How many careers are men centric? Where no matter what a woman does, she will never be an equal in pay or opportunity? Come back to me on this when everything other than sex work is equal. And for the record, straight men are more than welcome to enter into sex work. There are a number of gentlemen I know who have OnlyFans accounts, who are straight, and are making a good living. Women enjoy eye candy and sex, too.

As you can see, there are a number of things we’re just going to have to agree to disagree on here. I’ll also note, my being a slut has absolutely NOTHING to do with my being a sex worker. Those are two very different situations. Sex work is my JOB, being is a slut is a life choice ❤

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