This is a great piece, J.
I think there's a huge disconnect between people these days. I have no problem with porn in general, but I believe a certain generation has gotten the majority of their sexual experience from watching it, and not realizing this isn't necessarily real sex. Sure, there are people who fuck like porn stars and I'm sure they enjoy it. But for most of us, there needs to be either a conversation about what is and isn't okay, or the safe feeling that we can stop things we aren't comfortable with and regroup.
Even with casual encounters, there needs to be some conversation.
Thank you for sharing this <3