Thank you for the shout-out, JM!
I’m never one to just outright say, hey cheat on your spouse. Like, ever.
But seriously, you guys need to figure something out.
Obviously, I only have your side of things. But, is marriage/couples counseling something you all could do?
Are there potentially medical issues for her that could be causing her lack of interest/libido?
There will always come a time when libidos are mismatched in a relationship, especially as we get older. But there are ways around that. It doesn’t sound like she’s willing to work with you on it, from what you’ve said. And that makes me sad for you both.
I hope you both find a way to come together and spark some big joy this year ❤