So fucking much this.

With Jameela, a lot of people back peddled and said they weren’t really mad she came out, they’re mad she has no background in ballroom.

Okay, then make that a hard and fast requirement for the show. Point blank, period.

It’s as if they took not one second to consider her culture. She’s an Indian woman. The backlash she could receive from her culture, her family, for coming out is not only horrific but could be life-threatening.

It’s no wonder she kept her sexuality to herself.

Miley has made insane comments multiple times. But honestly, what she said was taken so stupidly, I think. If she were supposed to be full on lesbian and then decided oh, for PR I’ll date a man and say these things, then yes, okay, maybe you can say she needs to sit down. But for fuck’s sake, she’s bi or possibly pan.

I am too. I’m no less pan because I’m married to a man. I’m no less pan because I have sex with women, or relationships with women and men. No less pan because a thunderstorm makes me randy as hell.

The judgment and stigmas are ridiculous.

❤ I love you!

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