See, I was surprised to hear you felt alone with the erotic lactation, but I also need to remember how long I’ve been involved in the BDSM community. It comes up a lot there.
I can totally understand being afraid to mention it! People are so judgmental about certain things. That in particular, along with watersports, tends to get into people’s minds with the mommy/daddy thing and freak them out.
Read about infantalism and see how weirded out folks get. It’s not my kink, but I just can’t judge. I have to live by the adage, don’t yuck someone else’s yum ❤