Phenomenal piece, Emma. Flooding is exactly what I did to get into anal, too! I had bad experiences with it in the past, but it just looks so fun in porn. So I watched almost nothing but (pun intended!) anal porn for quite sometime when I was masturbating. It wasn't long before my husband and I had a very candid conversation about what I wanted. It's been some of the best sex I've had since.
Thanks for this, as always.