Oh man! At least you’re pretty sure you have nothing to worry about from your ex.
My first husband has a tape of me performing solo and I believe there’s a short video on the same tape of one of the last times we had sex. He refuses to give it to me. He already pulled stills from it and posted them all over the internet, right after we separated in 2004.
I’m sure those stills and probably even the full video are somewhere on a porn site labeled ‘fat ex wife whore does herself’
*sigh* not shit I can do about it except be happy I look nothing like that any longer and have way more tattoos haha