No, no complicated emotions. Just lack of prior communication, whereas previously, things had been talked to death lol.

Typically, for me, before involving others together, I would sit down with everyone involved and make sure everyone was on the same page and understood where we all were with things. This time, things just happened.

What I wanted to explore was that this moment of spontaneity worked out well, but also acknowledge it could have gone completely different.

Thanks so much for reading and responding so thoughtfully. Trust me, this was a good situation, but they aren’t all that way. I have some horror stories as well haha. I’ll share those at some point. I’m no Pollyanna and don’t want people to think I believe polyamory is all sunshine and rainbows. Like any relationship, it has its ups and downs!

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