My dear friend.
I love you dearly and I support you.
I have a difficult time with this for personal reasons, but I am not here to judge.
I can only say, proceed with caution. We never truly know someone else’s story, unless we are there watching from the wings. So many times, I’ve seen men tell the ‘other woman’ exactly what they want to hear, while their wife sits by completely clueless.
I’ve been the clueless wife. Taking care of everything at home, having great and regular sex, and still…
Hugs and love. I wish the absolute best outcome for you with this.