Kent — Maybe you could have your partner sit ‘side saddle’? I’m assuming you mean if your partner is facing you, you point to 11?
My first husband was curved, pointing towards 6 o’clock if I was facing him. It made cowgirl uncomfortable, but reverse cowgirl was great as was doggy.
It’s all about working with your anatomy and hers.
As for my husband, it couldn’t have been serious as he’s had no issues since.