I think this goes to show how in tune you actually are with yourself, honestly. That you even considered anything other than a sexual response, period.

I also don’t think there’s anything wrong with appreciating bodies. Especially of our friends! Sure, I think Julia, Yael, Ena, (and anyone who has been kind enough to allow me to see their body) is stunning. Do they turn me on in a sexual way? Yes, I would be lying if I said otherwise.

But does that mean I can’t appreciate their beauty in every way possible? No, it surely doesn’t.

I don’t think you’ve ever come across as being a creeper, nor would anyone else say otherwise.

I also don’t think Julia’s age means anything when it comes to appreciating her beauty and sexuality. She’s beyond the age of majority.

Thank you for being one of the good guys, B ❤

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