I think it depends on the man.

I can tell you my first husband give no fucks about my pleasure and was only after his orgasm, period. Which made me believe it only felt good for him the instant he came.

I’ve since learned that is not the case at all, of course.

For a man who is in tune with his lover, he can feel pleasure from giving pleasure, as well as the pleasure he garners from the sexual acts themselves.

I also believe some men are just all about getting to the finish line, since that’s what feels the best.

I’m lucky to no longer be having sex with men like that ❤

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Sex educator working toward a more sex positive world, one word at a time. Contact: demeterdelune@gmail.com YouTube: bit.ly/3n5LpC5

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