I love this. Alan is one of my favorite people here (and in general) and his thoughts on sex and women always make me think. I know I've read Teadad's words at some point, but I'm definitely making it a point today to read the piece you linked. Especially since it's revolving around Tantra.That's something I've been diving into here and there over the last couple of months and want to learn more about.
I think it's very interesting when men 'back off' from their solo play, so to speak. I've had issues in the past with former lovers who spent way too much time masturbating, and didn't seem to have anything left for me. Now, I'm married to a man who doesn't masturbate at all. It's an interesting dynamic for sure.
Thank you for always saying things so beautifully wifey, and making me think <3