I love this. My best female friend and I kiss on the lips. She started it, it’s part of her culture. (she’s Puerto Rican). It never bothered me, I welcome it. I’m with you in regard to my platonic relationships, with women anyway. I’m a cuddler. I love to cuddle on the couch and watch movies, etc. When my best friend lived here, we would do that all the time. It’s a wonderful way to get human touch.

We are both bisexual, but that wasn’t part of our relationship. We did have sex a couple of times, but it wasn’t something that interfered with our friendship. It was just taking touch further without romantic entanglements. There was even a time she just said, I really want to have an orgasm, will you help me? Of course I would.

I don’t feel that way about male friendship, though. Too often, I’ve seen it turn into something, more. Something not about friendship at all, but purely sex. If that’s something someone is in the market for, cool! But I know I’m not, unless it’s something my husband and I have agreed to ahead of time.

I’m sure it has a lot to do with the person. I’ve just never personally had it go well.

I love you to pieces! Thank you for sharing this. ❤

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