I love how blunt you are. It's refreshing. Reading about your interactions with Melanie in a public setting reminds me of the woman my husband and I were having sex with together. She's an integral part of our 'family', so at the least, there are 4 or 5 gatherings per year where we're all around one another and must behave ourselves. I was concerned at the onset it wouldn't be possible. But you explained it perfectly. There's no longer any sexual tension between her and us because we've had sex. So we're just naturally more comfortable with one another. Knowing what I know, having been part of it, I can see how things have changed a bit between her and my husband, but no one else has. It's been almost 4 years and no one suspects a thing.