I had NEVER been able to finish a hand job either, until fairly recently. My hubby took some antibiotics I am deathly allergic to, so we couldn’t have sex nor could I safely give him oral.

But I still wanted to do SOMETHING. So I tried a hand job again.

He isn’t big into jerking himself off either, so I don’t know if that helps?

But what did help, was using a vibrator on his balls and shaft when I started working him with my hand. And lube.

I was finally able to finish a hand job and it was such a feeling of accomplishment!!

❤ Thanks for sharing this, it’s great to know I wasn’t alone.

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