I am one of the most open people out there. Yes, I created a space for blunt, honest, vulnerability for us both. As to your comment about where was my concern when I was having sex with others? I protected myself, and in turn, my partners.
At this point it feels you just want to be argumentative and I won't play into that.
Clearly, in a 1000 word article, I can't cover the entirety of my relationship, so there will be parts I don't go over with a fine toothed comb.
You may want to do some internal work on yourself and try to figure out where all this anger at a random woman on the internet is coming from. I get that you feel how you do, and some of it is warranted overall, but not at me. I know there are some shitty people in the world, I've met a number of them. I work hard to be inclusive and non-judgmental, and as sex positive as humanly possible. I have all the tolerance in the world for sexual fluidity, etc but not for being attacked when I tell MY story.
Have a good day, Kwame and best of luck to you in your journeys.