I absolutely love this. I think it's wonderful when two adults can behave like, well, adults, when it comes to their children. Unfortunately, that's not the way of things around these parts. My 'regular' profile needs to write a piece about it. Sadly, I have to tip-toe because one of the children's mothers found my fucking writing.
If it were the smallest child's egg donor, I would not give a shit. But it isn't, and we have to be very careful what we say around the other one. I can't stand petty people who use children as weapons.