Hahaha I had a feeling that would get a rise out of you. Pun intended.
Just because someone is getting aroused, surely doesn’t mean they are taking care of business.
My good friend/sister mentioned my the threesome story is a prime example. Her husband literally walks around with a half chub, all the time. Yet, he would rather masturbate than have sex.
So, he’s getting aroused by something, regularly. But he’s still not performing sexually with her. Hence, her coming to us for relief.