Great getting to know you a bit, doll <3
I think the trick with the pole and actual dancing boils down to clientel. Since the majority of the clients in a strip club are men, everything you said is spot on. But as a woman who enjoys the club too, I always gravitated to the dancers who did a lot of pole work (because I KNOW it's fucking hard!!) and the ones you could tell were another type of dancer beyond stripping.
Don't get me wrong, I love a good slow strip tease too <3
Thanks for sharing your knowledge, it's always neat to peek behind the curtain.