First of all, you’re right. THIS ISN’T FOREVER.

Sorry, didn’t mean to yell. But that’s important.

I am in the same boat with you. Except, I wasn’t in exceptional shape to begin with, so it’s a little rougher because I am also trying to lose weight while dealing with this drama.

That said, you’re a fucking badass warrior queen.

Here’s what I found when I had FWB years ago, when this body drama started.

Some of them I never felt I could be completely open with regarding my changing body and health. Those, I dropped.

The ones I could talk to and be completely honest with, I told what was going on. We modified our time together, similar to how I modified things with my then husband, when he was home.

Of course, not everyone understands or cares to, after all, they’re not in a deep, emotional relationship with us.

But you may find, your FWB enjoys your time together so much, they’re willing to modify things and understand what’s going on.

If not, their loss!!

I wish you health, love, and lots of sexy. You’re a beautiful amazing soul.


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