Brilliant as always, Ben. I’m not usually looking to laugh when I read an article about sex, except when I read yours. I love your mix of self deprecating humor with knowledge.

I really appreciated the part about connection. Too often I think, people believe there has to be ‘love’, or at least working up to that, in order to have meaningful sex. I think you hit the nail on the head with the connection point. There are a million ways to connect with someone, and ‘forever’ doesn’t have to be it.

Great read!!

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