What I’m up to and who I am, updated May 24, 2021


My name is Demeter DeLune and I’ve been writing stories my entire life. Welcome to my page. I hope you find at least one story you can connect with. About a year ago, I began this journey on Medium, sharing my deepest, darkest secrets in story form, and sexual education pieces.

In this life, I’ve been a Professional Dominatrix, a phone sex operator, an insurance agent, a chemist, and a counselor.

Now, I’m a freelance writer, editor, and sex educator.

Writing under a pseudonym has its advantages. This is a place I can express myself, tell stories, share erotica, or…

The ladies shouldn’t have all the fun when it comes to enhancements!

Around 32,000 years ago, siltstone dildos were used as a sex toy, making them the world’s oldest known sex toys. Rumor has it, Cleopatra was known for pleasuring herself with a papyrus box full of live bees, around 51 BC. First vibrator? French and Spanish sailors took rubber sleeves out to sea with them; they called them “Ladies of the Journey”, making them the first known male-specific sex toys. 1

Love them or hate them, sex toys are here to stay. Considering they’ve been around for centuries, you’d think we’d be used to them by now. Yet surprisingly, the topic…

Review of the OUCH! Old School Tattoo Style Printed Leather Paddle

One of my favorite sounds in the world is the thwack of a good leather paddle on bare skin. Usually, I’m the one wielding the paddle in my role as a Dominatrix. Don’t get it twisted, in my regular life, I’m a switch and love receiving a good, hard spanking just as much as I enjoy handing one out. But it’s been quite some time since I’ve gotten the paddling I didn’t know I needed, until the awesome folks at Naughty Betty’s sent me the coolest paddle I’ve ever owned. The OUCH! Old School Tattoo Style Printed Leather Paddle is…

Ya’ll wouldn’t be too surprised, but it goes to show how important privacy is.

Considering I’m a confessional writer, it may come as a surprise that I’m actually a pretty private person in my day-to-day life. Because I write under an assumed name, I’m able to be more open and vulnerable here than I am in my regular life. My husband and a small handful of people are the only folks in the so called real world who truly know me and what all I get up to on a regular basis. Not only is it a case of me being private, but also for the safety of myself and our children. …

Sometimes, a regular day at the office means making a sex tape.

I’m not anyone special. If you knew me in real life, you’d likely wonder how the hell I found myself in any position to hang out with porn stars, much less have sex with any. It’s okay, I wondered the same thing a number of times myself. In a past life, I was a booking agent for a high-class escort agency, where one of my roles was party planning. A lot of our clients were extremely wealthy and enjoyed showing off their money in a party setting. Considering the majority of them were married, and they couldn’t easily be seen…

It’s human nature to desire sex, let’s encourage education and open communication rather than sneaking around.

Recently, Elle Beau ❇︎ wrote an essay about the disparity in sex education between the Netherlands and the United States. In the 1960s, our two countries had similar beliefs when it came to abstinence culture, however, the Netherlands changed the way they viewed things, based on research, whereas our country stayed the same. In the US, what little sex education our children receive revolves around an abstinence is best mentality, supported by an archaic purity culture. However, in the Netherlands, children are taught better, beginning as early as age four. …

It has its perks and downfalls, but I wouldn’t trade it for anything.

I’ve lived on the coast about half my life in one place or another. It’s one of the things I said, when I was a child, I would do when I grew up that I actually managed to accomplish. Even when I wasn’t living at the beach, I was visiting every chance I got. I remember being a kid and coming to the family’s condo or beach trailer every weekend we were able, schlepping across the street or just across the dunes in the backyard to that sandy, salty oasis, the Atlantic Ocean.

On three occasions, we traveled to the…

These aren’t your childhood board games.

According to Google, sex games are searched over 33,000 times per month. That’s over 1,000 times per day, so I know it’s on your mind. Whether it’s because you want to spice things up in the bedroom or you just want to try something new on date night, naughty sex games are on the minds of couples a lot, so rather than scour the internet for a ton of new things to get into, why not put them all in one place so you can spend more time actually playing instead of searching? You’re welcome.

Some of these require a…

How my friends became my number one way to play.

There are tons of videos available online in various categories for those who enjoy adult entertainment. I subscribe to a couple of ethical porn sites, so I always have a myriad of sources when it’s time for solo or partnered play if I want some video company. But I find, more often than not, my go-to when I want to get off quickly are videos I’ve been sent by my friends. And my absolute favorites are from my female friends.

Years ago, while doing research, I remembered reading about the BodySex workshops Betty Dodson held in the late 60s, where…

But in some situations, coupled with open communication, it can help.

My husband has cheated. I’ve always been honest about this in my writing, not because I want to demonize him in the eyes of my readers, quite the opposite actually. Nor do I want to romanticize it. I’m open minded, but that doesn’t mean his betrayals didn’t hurt. What they did was force me to open my eyes to the reality of our situation and question him and myself as to why he was exhibiting this behavior. And most of all, was it something he would continue to do or was it possible for him to stop.

One of the…

Demeter deLune

Sex educator working toward a more sex positive world, one word at a time. Contact: demeterdelune@gmail.com YouTube: bit.ly/3n5LpC5

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