What I’m up to and who I am, updated January 18, 2021

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Biography

My name is Demeter DeLune and I’ve been writing stories my entire life. Welcome to my page. I hope you find at least one story you can connect with. About a year ago, I began this journey on Medium, sharing my deepest, darkest secrets in story form and sexual education pieces.

In this life, I’ve been a Professional Dominatrix, a phone sex operator, an insurance agent, a chemist, and a counselor.

Now, I’m a freelance writer, editor, and sex educator.

Writing under a pseudonym has its advantages. This is a place I can express myself, tell stories, share erotica, or anything else I choose; without fear of repercussions from the ‘real world’. …


The ladies shouldn’t have all the fun when it comes to enhancements!

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Around 32,000 years ago, siltstone dildos were used as a sex toy, making them the world’s oldest known sex toys. Rumor has it, Cleopatra was known for pleasuring herself with a papyrus box full of live bees, around 51 BC. First vibrator? French and Spanish sailors took rubber sleeves out to sea with them; they called them “Ladies of the Journey”, making them the first known male-specific sex toys. 1

Love them or hate them, sex toys are here to stay. Considering they’ve been around for centuries, you’d think we’d be used to them by now. Yet surprisingly, the topic remains one which most people don’t consider commonplace. What’s with all the shame? Sex is natural. Inroads have certainly been made where women’s pleasure is concerned, though not as much as you might think given all the available technology and the sheer size of the market. …


It probably won’t be perfect, but you can make it great with a little preparation.

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The first time you have sex can be quite nerve-racking; Especially for men, as there is a lot of pressure surrounding performance. If you take the time to be prepared and learn a thing or two ahead of time, you can ensure it’s a pleasurable and fun time for everyone involved. Here are some tips to help you prepare for your first time.

Let’s talk about sex

Ultimately, you and your partner should have a conversation (or three) about what you both desire when it comes to sex. Sure, passion happens and you may find yourself in the midst of having sex for the first time without ever talking about it. It may not sound sexy to sit down with your person and discuss what you’d like to happen, your likes and dislikes, and expectations, but it actually is. …


What happens between consenting adults is no one else’s business.

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Almost six months ago, Jerry Falwell, Jr. resigned his post as president of Liberty University. He did so not because he controversially refused to require students to be tested for COVID-19 before returning to campus this fall. He didn’t resign because many students and faculty chafed at his long-term efforts to silence social dissent on, and sometimes off, school grounds. Nor was it because he had posted a photo of himself with his pants unzipped on social media.

He resigned because he’s into cuckolding and people found out.

Make no mistake, this was not the proverbial straw that broke the camel’s back. The other issues listed above were easily ignored, glossed over, minimized, covered up, or forgiven by the conservative Christian community in which he operates. But inviting a pool boy into his bedroom, so Falwell could watch him have sex with his wife, was too much. If he had cheated on his wife? That can be forgiven, even in deeply conservative circles. But, somehow, being cuckolded by his wife made him a person who could no longer be trusted. …


Perineum stimulation and massage is pleasurable, and easy to do alone or with a partner.

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Prostate stimulation is a fantastic way for men to experience orgasm in a new and exciting way. But not all men are comfortable with the idea of something being inserted into their anus. So, how do you achieve the stimulation you want, without doing something that makes you uncomfortable? Meet the perineum.

The perineum is the patch of skin located between the anus and the scrotum. Popular terms for this area include taint, gouche, grundle, or gooch. When touched, massaged, or otherwise engaged in sexual play, it can offer plenty of enjoyment. Because it’s nearby the internal prostate gland, stimulating it externally can bring similar sensations to actual prostate massage. You might be wondering how it is that you haven’t heard about perineum pleasure or orgasms before now. That’s totally normal. …


Spoiler alert: It wasn’t the sex.

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Threesomes are one of the most fun endeavors a couple can embark on. But, like anything we get into of a sexual nature, it’s important to communicate on the front end before jumping into the fun. Every couple is different, but there are some things that are fairly universal when it comes to planning a threesome.

Having a threesome isn’t necessarily indicative of a couple delving into swinging or polyamory. …


But life is even harder when you don’t take care of yourself.

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Writing has always been therapeutic for me. Ever since I was a little girl with a cute pink diary to write in, I’ve ranted my feelings, thoughts, dreams, and hopes on paper (or screen) with decent results. Either I felt better or I made myself cry through trauma and eventually felt better.

For the last month, I’ve been unable to do so.

Being a sex writer isn’t always fun and games, but for the most part, no matter my personal mood, I can come up with a fun anecdote or story from the past to share with others. …


The top 10 positions to increase pleasure all around.

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Penis size has never been a deal-breaker for me, unless it was too large. Sure, everyone has their ‘perfect’ size, and I’m a lucky lady in that what’s considered ‘average’ is my preferred. However, some men make the mistake of comparing themselves to porn stars, or what they think women want, and that’s just not realistic. Everyone is different, and most women are happy with whatever you’re packing. As long as you know how to use it.

Women want a man who is good in bed. That means someone who is communicative, takes their time and is attentive to her needs. Nowhere in there is size much of a factor. Nonetheless, if you have an average size penis (which is 5.16 inches if you’re interested, erect) or smaller, and you’re concerned about your performance, there are certain positions that can give you an advantage. …


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This year has been one wild ride. Daily Sex has grown a lot in the last few months of this crazy year and I couldn’t be happier. Although I’ve not been able to write daily (as I would like), you guys have stayed around and helped this labor of love get even better.

As of today, we’re averaging 265 unique visitors per day to the publication. Though this is peanuts compared to the larger pubs out there, it’s a big deal to me.

So, thank you, from the bottom of my heart.

Year in Review

Our top three stories for the year:

I Was a Phone Sex Operator, Here are My…


Contrary to popular belief, I haven’t said everything I want to say, yet.

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One motto I’ve kept in the back of my mind for most of my life is ‘better safe than sorry’. It’s something my Dad drilled into my head from childhood. He was a very anxious person, and was constantly concerned for our safety and well-being. A bit more than necessary at times, but regardless, the motto stuck with me.

When it comes to my writing, even though I talk about everything from anal to zygotes, I’ve still played it somewhat safe. Granted, using a pen name should afford me the safety I require, while still being able to write all I desire. But I still hold back at times, and that isn’t fulfilling. …

About

Demeter deLune

Sex educator working toward a more sex positive world, one word at a time. Contact: demeterdelune@gmail.com YouTube: bit.ly/3n5LpC5

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