What I’m up to and who I am, updated January 2022

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My name is Demeter Delune and I’ve been writing stories my entire life. Welcome to my page. I hope you find at least one story you can connect with. About four years ago, I began this journey on Medium, sharing my deepest, darkest secrets in story form, under my ‘real…

How it’s different than regular public sex and the legal issues.

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I recently ran across a fantastic show on Showtime called Sex with Sunny Megatron. Sunny Megatron is a Sexuality & Kink Educator and media personality. She’s the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, SEX with Sunny Megatron, plus co-hosts the AASECT Award winning American Sex Podcast…


Thrifty Word Challenge 100 #53: & 50 #74: Penis

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In our super secret TBI Editor’s group chat recently, I made a comment to Edward Anderson about his lack of listening skills due to him possessing a penis. While this was clearly a joke, there have been some sketchy studies conducted that say men do tend to tune out after…

There’s no ‘be all end all’ perfect advice, but there are some things that help.

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Emma Austin recently published a great piece about bad anal sex advice which prompted me to write this piece. She makes a lot of valid points, which I’ll let you read for yourself.

I have to admit, I’ve seen a lot in the way of bad sexual advice over the…

Just because you want things to go a certain way for your benefit doesn’t mean they will.

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There’s a lot of talk about closure when it comes to ending relationships, whether you’re the one doing the ending or not. What I don’t see a lot of discussion about is how going after closure hardcore can actually be detrimental to your mental health. Dr. Joy Harden-Bradford, creator of…

While communicating is vital, what you ask is just as important.

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No matter where you are in your relationship, new, established, or other, now is a good time to deepen the intimacy and connection you and your partner(s) have. Even if things are going swimmingly, why wouldn’t you want things to get even better? And if you’re in a position where…

Demeter Delune

Audacious. An educator who loves to talk about sexuality, relationships, and give advice. Let’s work together demeterdelune@gmail.com

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