What I’m up to and who I am, updated February 3, 2021

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My name is Demeter DeLune and I’ve been writing stories my entire life. Welcome to my page. I hope you find at least one story you can connect with. About a year ago, I began this journey on Medium, sharing my deepest, darkest secrets in story form and sexual education pieces.

In this life, I’ve been a Professional Dominatrix, a phone sex operator, an insurance agent, a chemist, and a counselor.

Now, I’m a freelance writer, editor, and sex educator.

Writing under a pseudonym has its advantages. This is a place I can express myself, tell stories, share erotica, or…


The ladies shouldn’t have all the fun when it comes to enhancements!

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Around 32,000 years ago, siltstone dildos were used as a sex toy, making them the world’s oldest known sex toys. Rumor has it, Cleopatra was known for pleasuring herself with a papyrus box full of live bees, around 51 BC. First vibrator? French and Spanish sailors took rubber sleeves out to sea with them; they called them “Ladies of the Journey”, making them the first known male-specific sex toys. 1

Love them or hate them, sex toys are here to stay. Considering they’ve been around for centuries, you’d think we’d be used to them by now. Yet surprisingly, the topic…


This list is not exhaustive.

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The point of wearing a mask in public has nothing to do with hiding my smile, or lack thereof, but it’s been a lovely bonus. In the last year or so of mask wearing, I’ve not had one man tell me I should smile, that I would be prettier if I smiled, or any variation thereof. It’s been wonderful. I naturally have a bad case of Resting Bitch Face and typically, I like it that way. It keeps most people away I probably don’t want to talk to anyway, but unfortunately, it seems to draw in the kind of men…


When we’re shown healthy relationship models, we can learn better ways to live in our own.

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Growing up, I had at least two good, yet different, models for marriage. The one closest to home were my paternal grandparents. They met and married just before World War II began, and spent the first four years of their marriage almost totally apart, save a few shore leaves where my uncle and dad were conceived. I don’t know how this affected their marriage, as neither of them were big on talking about things like that. …


This dynamic gets a lot of flak from society because people don’t get it.

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One of the most misunderstood types of BDSM relationships is the Daddy Dom/little girl dynamic (or DDlg). For some, it’s just fun role-playing with clothing and outfits. For other age-players, it is a large part of their identity. Even though there are many benefits to age-playing, it can be hard to know what things to say to someone who feels this lifestyle is wrong. And they will, most of the time, simply due to not understanding the dynamic.

What is DDlg?

DDLG, or DD/lg, stands for Daddy Dom/ little girl. DDLG is by definition, a form of age-play, which is a kink/ fetish…


Deep-throating isn’t for everyone, but if it’s on your bucket list, here are some tips and tricks.

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Deep throating can be intimidating. We’ve all seen the porn scenes where the giver’s face is covered in saliva, running make-up, and the receiver seems to be calling all the shots. It’s always best to remember, porn is not real life. Giving a great blow job, and incorporating deep throating, doesn’t have to be scary. Like any new sexual move, it takes some practice. And with deep throating, you can practice before you ever put his cock in your mouth.

Practice Makes Perfect

Lucky for them, 37% of people don’t seem to have a gag reflex. If you’re not one of the lucky…


Fat bodies have desires just like anyone else and need better representation.

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I’ll be the first person to tell you, I don’t think I’m sexy. Like, at all. My husband loves to aggravate me by ‘making’ me tell him yes, I think I’m hot, beautiful, sexy, etc. But I never mean it. I know he believes I am all of those things, and more. Why? Sure, he tells me, but most of all, he shows me. But years of hearing, ‘You’d be hot if you lost weight’ and ‘You have such a pretty face for a big girl’ have taught me sexiness and beauty come with caveats.

Today, I was reading an…


Amid news from NYC announcing they’ll stop prosecuting prostitution, and Lizzo’s au natural photo on Instagram, women still have negative things to say about other women’s bodies.

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As women, we live in a society that constantly tells us what we should and shouldn’t wear, based on our age, gender, and body type. Luckily, there are those out here doing their own damn thing anyway. Lizzo comes to mind almost immediately. The artist is a shining example of putting in the work and holding herself accountable.

Recently, she posted a nude (yet tastefully covered for IG’s standards of course) photo of herself, untouched. In her own words, “Welcome to Taurus Season. To celebrate, I want to give y’all this unedited selfie. Now normally, I would fix my belly…


My review of Sinloli’s 10.6 inch dildo, in purple glitter!

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I am not typically a size queen, when it comes to penises. I have to be honest though, I really enjoy a good ‘stretch’ every once in awhile. Thankfully, there are myriad sex toys on the market that accommodate that wish! Recently, Sinloli contacted me and asked if I was interested in testing one of their dildos. In the past, I would have immediately said yes without doing my research, because hey, free sex toy! But I’ve recently started being a bit more particular about who I’m doing business with, and try to avoid Amazon sellers for the most part.


Users have identified April 24th as National Rape Day and we need to be prepared.

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Every 73 seconds, an American is sexually assaulted. By the time you finish reading this article, depending on how quickly you read, two-four people will be sexually assaulted. On average, there are 433,648 victims (aged 12 or older) of rape and sexual assault each year in the United States. (stats from RAINN)

As if those numbers aren’t dire enough, now, someone on the internet has designated April 24, 2021 as National Rape Day.

Yes, you read that correctly.

There’s a video going around TikTok stating men will be raping women and children on that day. TikTok has removed the video…

Demeter deLune

Sex educator working toward a more sex positive world, one word at a time. Contact: demeterdelune@gmail.com YouTube: bit.ly/3n5LpC5

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