What I’m up to and who I am, updated February 3, 2021


My name is Demeter DeLune and I’ve been writing stories my entire life. Welcome to my page. I hope you find at least one story you can connect with. About a year ago, I began this journey on Medium, sharing my deepest, darkest secrets in story form and sexual education pieces.

In this life, I’ve been a Professional Dominatrix, a phone sex operator, an insurance agent, a chemist, and a counselor.

Now, I’m a freelance writer, editor, and sex educator.

Writing under a pseudonym has its advantages. This is a place I can express myself, tell stories, share erotica, or…

The ladies shouldn’t have all the fun when it comes to enhancements!

Around 32,000 years ago, siltstone dildos were used as a sex toy, making them the world’s oldest known sex toys. Rumor has it, Cleopatra was known for pleasuring herself with a papyrus box full of live bees, around 51 BC. First vibrator? French and Spanish sailors took rubber sleeves out to sea with them; they called them “Ladies of the Journey”, making them the first known male-specific sex toys. 1

Love them or hate them, sex toys are here to stay. Considering they’ve been around for centuries, you’d think we’d be used to them by now. Yet surprisingly, the topic…

My review of Sinloli’s 10.6 inch dildo, in purple glitter!

I am not typically a size queen, when it comes to penises. I have to be honest though, I really enjoy a good ‘stretch’ every once in awhile. Thankfully, there are myriad sex toys on the market that accommodate that wish! Recently, Sinloli contacted me and asked if I was interested in testing one of their dildos. In the past, I would have immediately said yes without doing my research, because hey, free sex toy! But I’ve recently started being a bit more particular about who I’m doing business with, and try to avoid Amazon sellers for the most part.

Users have identified April 24th as National Rape Day and we need to be prepared.

Every 73 seconds, an American is sexually assaulted. By the time you finish reading this article, depending on how quickly you read, two-four people will be sexually assaulted. On average, there are 433,648 victims (aged 12 or older) of rape and sexual assault each year in the United States. (stats from RAINN)

As if those numbers aren’t dire enough, now, someone on the internet has designated April 24, 2021 as National Rape Day.

Yes, you read that correctly.

There’s a video going around TikTok stating men will be raping women and children on that day. TikTok has removed the video…

Your choice in career doesn’t mean you lose agency over your own body.

Consent is a hot topic these days, but sadly, I’m still seeing evidence people don’t feel sex workers have the same rights to consent as everyone else. There seems to be a mistaken impression that simply because you’re a sex worker, and being paid for your services, this means you have to deal with whatever comes your way. Sadly, this is likely the case for those being trafficked, since they didn’t necessarily agree to sex work in the first place. …

Whether it’s your first relationship, or your fifth, there are some things that are universal.

Are you entering your first relationship? Or are you concerned that past relationships haven’t gone so well, and curious as to what you can do to change the outcome? If you are in it for the long-haul, there are some tips and tricks to make things work in the long-term. No one gave me relationship advice before I had my first one. Most of what I heard boiled down to, you’re too young, neither of you know what you want out of life yet, you don’t know what love means, etc.

Age notwithstanding (I was 15), there are a number…

Foria Wellness isn’t new to the market of CBD infused lubricants, but they’re definitely one of the leaders.

There are so many lubricants on the market today, you’re sure to find at least one that meets your needs. Recently, I’ve been seeing a lot about CBD lubricant and wanted to find out if the hype surrounding it is all it’s cracked up to be. I have to admit, I thought it was more a novelty than anything else. I love using lube, but I’ve always stuck to one kind that works well for everything and left it at that.

With anything I’m going to put in or on my body, I wanted to be sure I was getting…

1. Space takes on a whole new meaning.

Today marks our first month living full-time in our class A RV. For those who aren’t aware of the differences in RVs, a class A is the one you drive that kind of looks like a bus. Ours is 30 feet long and approximately eight feet wide, and doesn’t have any slides (which give you more room). Since it’s driveable, and we have a personal vehicle as well, when we’re traveling, there’s also a car dolly attached to pull our SUV. Total length with everything attached is 51 feet. That’s a lot of vehicle going down the road!

Meet Bettie…

When we re-frame our understanding of connection, we open the door to more pleasure.

I recently wrote a piece talking about having a threesome with my girlfriend and my husband. One of the most intriguing parts of this experience, for me, was learning how much better the sex was, for me, simply because there was a strong connection between the three of us. I posited it may be because I’m demisexual, but the more I think about it and research, the more I realize it’s not that at all. It’s a lot simpler than that.

It’s all about connection.

My sexual experience is all over the map. I’ve had one-night stands, threesomes, foursomes, and…

In our search for the perfect couples vibrator, Lelo provided everything we’re looking for.

When you’re a sex toy tester, one of the ways you feel you’ve ‘made it’ is when you’re finally contacted by a high-end sex toy company and asked to test one of their toys. Maybe that’s just me! One of the happiest emails I ever received was from Lelo, asking if I would be willing to test one of their items and review it. Of course, I said yes! I’ve always wanted to own one of their toys, but haven’t been able to justify purchasing one myself due to budget constraints. Sometimes it sucks being a responsible adult!

I chose…

Demeter deLune

Sex educator working toward a more sex positive world, one word at a time. Contact: demeterdelune@gmail.com YouTube: bit.ly/3n5LpC5

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